While I was filled in on many things, there were still so many things that came as a surprise to me about having a baby.

I can take Rosemond’s advice to heart, keep my maternal ego in check, and give my husband an extra big hug tonight – because I truly believe from the bottom of my heart that the best gift you can give your child is a solid, happy marriage to your spouse.

Let’s just admit it – we’ve all watched at least one episode of “The Bachelor” or “The Bachelorette.” Sometimes you just need some trashy TV to get your mind off your own chaotic life. My husband won’t be pleased that I share this, but we’ve watched “The Bachelorette” together.

Before the kids, my husband and I did everything together. We went out to eat, saw concerts, stayed up late watching movies, and traveled. I would have characterized our marriage as “easy.” Then we had kids.